A harmonious romantic relationship necessitates mutual happiness and a source of vitality for both parties involved. Its foundation should be rooted in joy, appreciation, active listening, and profound love.
An individual should feel at ease in expressing their true self within the partnership. The partner ought to demonstrate unwavering support for personal growth and development, while refraining from stifling such progression. This should ideally be a reciprocal exchange.
Should either partner experience a sense of suppression or emotional closure, or if the relationship becomes burdensome and challenging, it becomes imperative for the dynamics of the relationship to evolve; otherwise, its natural trajectory might lead towards its conclusion.
Over the past few years, I’ve encountered numerous instances of individuals grappling with relationship struggles and healing requirements. This trend continues to persist.
I’ve witnessed the emotional devastation experienced by both genders resulting from fractured relationships. Despite being afflicted by emotions of despair, sorrow, anger, and even vindictiveness triggered by these ruptured bonds, the yearning to reunite with their beloved remains steadfast. Such individuals often find themselves ensnared in panic and fear, pondering their perceived inadequacy for establishing a new relationship or the potential lack of alternative prospects for love.
Contrary to such anxieties, I consistently convey that our world is vast and replete with individuals seeking love and companionship. Instead of clinging onto the past, the path forward involves embracing the prospect of finding an ideal match—one that aligns with the love, elation, and compatible companionship envisaged by their Creator.
In this context, Reiki assumes a pivotal role in aiding those who carry the weight of broken hearts. If it serves the highest good for both parties involved to rekindle their union, Reiki facilitates such a reunion. Conversely, if this outcome is not in alignment with their cosmic path, Reiki embarks on the following transformative actions:
- Cultivating emotional and mental resilience.
- Elevating self-esteem while preserving personal dignity.
- Dissipating residual energies from the preceding relationship.
- Addressing emotional barriers that hinder progression.
- Fostering an awareness of dormant emotional sensations.
- Raising personal vibrational frequency.
- Establishing firm energetic boundaries for future relationships.
- Facilitating openness to new possibilities and connections.
A significant instance transpired in August 2015, when I engaged in relationship healing for a Canadian woman and her American boyfriend of Indian origin, who had maintained a caring and sharing relationship for over a decade. Despite their families’ consent, their impending engagement was thwarted by the sudden departure of the gentleman to the United States, merely days prior to the engagement ceremony. His explanation, “We lack compatibility, and it is best to refrain from marriage,” left the woman devastated.
Having undertaken their relationship healing, I reiterated that Reiki would serve their highest good, aligning their fate with the most optimal outcome. Although the gentleman resumed communication, his absence from her life was indicative of their differing destinies.
Nonetheless, the profound transformation lay in the woman’s newfound emotional and mental fortitude. She embraced her reality, allowing her to progress.
Recently, she expressed her gratitude for Reiki’s intervention. The post-healing phase saw her cross paths with another gentleman, heralding genuine happiness.
Similarly, another instance a few years ago involved a woman seeking Reiki’s intervention to salvage her inter-caste marriage, mired in hardship and desolation. The husband’s inclination towards divorce, citing trivial reasons, signaled the impending dissolution. Despite her fervent desire to rescue the marriage, destiny remained unyielding. Reiki, however, nurtured her emotional and psychological strength, thereby paving the path to independence and eventual happiness through a subsequent marriage.
Reiki, with its soothing and nurturing essence, serves as a balm for emotional and even physical anguish following a breakup. It penetrates deep into the psyche and soul, tenderly facilitating healing. Consistent engagement with Reiki can catalyze a complete recovery from the throes of a breakup.
This renewal often results in a surge of personal energy and vitality, propelling one towards positive outcomes. The effervescent radiance engendered by Reiki can even attract new love or soulmate connections.
For those grappling with the aftermath of a love lost, my counsel remains unwavering: Rather than hastily seeking reconciliation, devote time to determining one’s intrinsic value and rightful entitlements (time, attention, security, honesty, commitment, etc.). A history devoid of these attributes does not preclude their possibility in the future. The decision to demand and embrace these aspects is pivotal in charting one’s course towards a healthier and more deserving relationship.
Recall that a relationship is an embodiment of self-worth and a manifestation of one’s perceived deservability. The heart’s pursuit should be redirected away from those who cause harm and disappointment. Instead, chant the mantra: “I inherently merit love, care, trust, and respect.”